What is a good personality?
Do you know the development of one's personality done in the right manner, is a challenging and rewarding task for every individual. And it is rewarding since no effort in this direction goes in vain. In fact, every effort brings success and satisfaction proportionate to the attempt. Since personality development is necessary for success in any field.
How a person behaves, feels and thinks,how he or she conducts himself in a given set of circumstances is largely determined by the state of his mind. Only the external appearance or a person's speech or mannerisms are only fringe of one's personality. They do not reflect the real personality.
We intend to do many things- make resolutions to cultivate good habits, to do something with a concentrated mind. And very often our mind rebels. For instance, a book is open before us, and our eyes are open. But the mind has started wandering, thinking about some past events. So hold your mind and focus.
Beauty is always linked with personality because even if you are a simple looking person and have a great personality, you can carry yourself with confidence, you are educated, have your own mind than you are, no doubt, definately a winner. Faith in God came next only to faith in God.We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. A noble character and developed personality will ensure excellence in one's chosen field. Now, to take a concrete example. A man comes; you know he is very learned, his language is beautiful, and he speaks to you, but he does not make any impression. Another man or woman comes, and he or she speaks a few words, not well arranged,perhaps, all the same, he makes an immense impression. Many of you have seen that. So it is evident that words alone cannot always produce an impression.
Words ,even thoughts, contribute only one-third of the influence in making an impression, the man, two-thirds.What you call the personal magnetism of the person-that is what goes out and impresses you. As already remarked, the personality of the man is two-thirds and his intellect, his words, are but one -third. It is the real person(man), the personality of the man,that runs through us.Our actions are but effects.
We constantly complain that we have no control over our actions, over our thoughts. But how can we have it? If we can get control over the fine movements, if we can get hold of thought at the root,before it has become thought, before it has become action, than it would be possible for us to control the whole.
Everything that is strong, and good, and powerful in human nature is the outcome of that divinity, and though potential in many, there is no difference between man and man essentially, all being alike divine.
Manifest the divinity within you, and everything will be harmoniously arranged around it.
If a man thinks good thoughts and does good works, the sum total of these impressions will be good, and they, in a similar manner, will force him to do good even in spite of himself. When a man has done so much good work and thought so many good thoughts that there is an irresistible tendency in him to do good, in spite of himself and even if he wishes to do evil, his mind, will not allow him to do so.
We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care of what you think.Words are secondary. Thoughts live,they travel far. Each thought we think is tinged with our own character.
Great work requires great and persistent effort for a long time.The road to the good is the roughest and steepest in the universe. It is a wonder that so many succeed, no wonder that so many fall. The mind, to have non-attachment, must be clear, good, and rational.
If good prevails, one becomes good; if wickedness, one becomes wicked; if joyfulness one becomes happy. The only remedy for bad habits is counter habits; all the bad habits that have left their impressions are to be controlled by good habits. Go on doing good, thinking holy thoughts continuously; that is the only way to suppress base impressions.
Do not desire, for what you desire you get, and with it comes terrible bondage. Most of our difficulties in our daily lives come from being unable to hold our minds in this way.
Fight on bravely!Life is short! Give it up to a great cause. We are responsible for what we are; and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. This life is a hard fact; work your way through it boldly, though it may be adamantine; no matter, the soul is stronger. Those that blame others-alas! the number of them is increasing every day. Therefore, stand up, be bold, be strong. Take the whole responsibility on your own shoulders. Resist all evils, mental and physical, and when you have succeeded in resisting, then will calmness come.
God is the only dispenser of results; leave it to Him to do all that. God is in everything. He is already in every work, in every thought, in every feeling. Thus knowing, we must work-this is the only way, there is no other. By doing well the duty which is nearest to us, the duty which is in our hands now, we make ourselves stronger, and improving our strength in this manner step by step.
If you have a good personality, half the battle is won, people like to be associated with smart people, whose presense is noticed. It also depends on your behaviour, your confidence, your maturity and the way you speak with others.Whatever you think, that you will be. If you think yourselves weak, weak you will be; if you think yourselves strong, strong you will be. This teaches us not to think ourselves as weak, but as strong, omnipotent, omniscient. You believe in it and it must and will come out.
Do not expect success in a day or a month. Always hold on to the highest. Be steady. Be faithful to the cause of truth, humanity. Remember it is the person, the life, which is the secret of power........ nothing else. All blessings attend you and all success.
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Do you know the development of one's personality done in the right manner, is a challenging and rewarding task for every individual. And it is rewarding since no effort in this direction goes in vain. In fact, every effort brings success and satisfaction proportionate to the attempt. Since personality development is necessary for success in any field.
How a person behaves, feels and thinks,how he or she conducts himself in a given set of circumstances is largely determined by the state of his mind. Only the external appearance or a person's speech or mannerisms are only fringe of one's personality. They do not reflect the real personality.
We intend to do many things- make resolutions to cultivate good habits, to do something with a concentrated mind. And very often our mind rebels. For instance, a book is open before us, and our eyes are open. But the mind has started wandering, thinking about some past events. So hold your mind and focus.
Beauty is always linked with personality because even if you are a simple looking person and have a great personality, you can carry yourself with confidence, you are educated, have your own mind than you are, no doubt, definately a winner. Faith in God came next only to faith in God.We are responsible for what we are, and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. A noble character and developed personality will ensure excellence in one's chosen field. Now, to take a concrete example. A man comes; you know he is very learned, his language is beautiful, and he speaks to you, but he does not make any impression. Another man or woman comes, and he or she speaks a few words, not well arranged,perhaps, all the same, he makes an immense impression. Many of you have seen that. So it is evident that words alone cannot always produce an impression.
Words ,even thoughts, contribute only one-third of the influence in making an impression, the man, two-thirds.What you call the personal magnetism of the person-that is what goes out and impresses you. As already remarked, the personality of the man is two-thirds and his intellect, his words, are but one -third. It is the real person(man), the personality of the man,that runs through us.Our actions are but effects.
We constantly complain that we have no control over our actions, over our thoughts. But how can we have it? If we can get control over the fine movements, if we can get hold of thought at the root,before it has become thought, before it has become action, than it would be possible for us to control the whole.
Everything that is strong, and good, and powerful in human nature is the outcome of that divinity, and though potential in many, there is no difference between man and man essentially, all being alike divine.
Manifest the divinity within you, and everything will be harmoniously arranged around it.
If a man thinks good thoughts and does good works, the sum total of these impressions will be good, and they, in a similar manner, will force him to do good even in spite of himself. When a man has done so much good work and thought so many good thoughts that there is an irresistible tendency in him to do good, in spite of himself and even if he wishes to do evil, his mind, will not allow him to do so.
We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care of what you think.Words are secondary. Thoughts live,they travel far. Each thought we think is tinged with our own character.
Great work requires great and persistent effort for a long time.The road to the good is the roughest and steepest in the universe. It is a wonder that so many succeed, no wonder that so many fall. The mind, to have non-attachment, must be clear, good, and rational.
If good prevails, one becomes good; if wickedness, one becomes wicked; if joyfulness one becomes happy. The only remedy for bad habits is counter habits; all the bad habits that have left their impressions are to be controlled by good habits. Go on doing good, thinking holy thoughts continuously; that is the only way to suppress base impressions.
Do not desire, for what you desire you get, and with it comes terrible bondage. Most of our difficulties in our daily lives come from being unable to hold our minds in this way.
Fight on bravely!Life is short! Give it up to a great cause. We are responsible for what we are; and whatever we wish ourselves to be, we have the power to make ourselves. This life is a hard fact; work your way through it boldly, though it may be adamantine; no matter, the soul is stronger. Those that blame others-alas! the number of them is increasing every day. Therefore, stand up, be bold, be strong. Take the whole responsibility on your own shoulders. Resist all evils, mental and physical, and when you have succeeded in resisting, then will calmness come.
God is the only dispenser of results; leave it to Him to do all that. God is in everything. He is already in every work, in every thought, in every feeling. Thus knowing, we must work-this is the only way, there is no other. By doing well the duty which is nearest to us, the duty which is in our hands now, we make ourselves stronger, and improving our strength in this manner step by step.
If you have a good personality, half the battle is won, people like to be associated with smart people, whose presense is noticed. It also depends on your behaviour, your confidence, your maturity and the way you speak with others.Whatever you think, that you will be. If you think yourselves weak, weak you will be; if you think yourselves strong, strong you will be. This teaches us not to think ourselves as weak, but as strong, omnipotent, omniscient. You believe in it and it must and will come out.
Do not expect success in a day or a month. Always hold on to the highest. Be steady. Be faithful to the cause of truth, humanity. Remember it is the person, the life, which is the secret of power........ nothing else. All blessings attend you and all success.
If you like my blog please comment on it.
Thanks.
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